One of you is strict, the other is more relaxed, and the kids are watching you sort it out in real time. In this episode, we revisit a favorite conversation with Cindy and Paul Karos about the Middle Way, the Orthodox practice of finding the path between two extremes. They explain how spouses who disagree can learn from each other, share a plan for scaling back an overloaded family calendar and offer practical advice on how to decide which shows are worth your kids' attention.
Episode Recap:
- Today we're talking with Cindy and Paul Karos about the Middle Way. (0:00)
- What is the Middle Way, and why do the church fathers teach it as a tool? (1:01)
- If humility is the middle, what do the two extremes look like? (2:30)
- Is the Middle Way just for the virtues, or does it apply to everyday areas of life like sports and screen time? (4:01)
- What false summits does the world tell us to chase, and why aren't they the goal? (5:55)
- What are the two extremes on entertainment, and what does the middle look like? (8:59)
- What do we do when we realize we've overcommitted as a family? (9:50)
- Hiba in Pennsylvania asks: How do we find the Middle Way together when one of us leans stricter and the other more relaxed? (12:06)
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